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Understanding the Flight, Fight, or Freeze Response in Neurodivergent Kids

Understanding the Flight, Fight, or Freeze Response in Neurodivergent Kids

When a child has a melt down, runs from the room, or goes completely still and silent, it’s not “bad behaviour.” Often, it’s the nervous system doing its job - trying to protect them. For neurodivergent children, stress responses can look different, come on quicker, and take longer to recover from. That's because their nervous systems are often more sensitive to sensory overload, transitions, unpredictability, and social interactions. So let’s take a deep breat …
Apr 10, 2025 Jody
The Difference Between a Tantrum and a Meltdown: Understanding and Responding with Compassion

The Difference Between a Tantrum and a Meltdown: Understanding and Responding with Compassion

Parenting can be a rollercoaster of emotions, especially when your child is having an intense outburst. But here’s the thing: not all outbursts are the same. Sometimes, what looks like a tantrum may actually be a meltdown, and knowing the difference can make a world of difference in how you respond. We know it’s not easy. When emotions are high, it’s hard to figure out what’s really going on. But understanding the root cause behind these behaviours can help you support yo …
Mar 30, 2025 Jody
Unmasking at Home - Recognising When Your Autistic Child Is Hiding Their True Self

Unmasking at Home - Recognising When Your Autistic Child Is Hiding Their True Self

For many autistic children, school is a place where they feel pressured to blend in. They often adopt behaviours that aren’t natural to them, masking their authentic selves to fit in with peers and meet social expectations. At school, they might excel at mimicking what others do - but at home, the mask often slips, revealing the exhaustion and emotional strain that comes with constant camouflage. In this post, we’ll explore some signs that your child might be masking in school and wh …
Mar 10, 2025 Jody
12 Ways You're Creating a Safe Space for Your ADHD Child

12 Ways You're Creating a Safe Space for Your ADHD Child

As parents, we often worry about whether we’re doing enough to support our children - especially when they have ADHD. It's easy to feel overwhelmed by the constant demands and misunderstandings that can arise. But here’s a reminder: by creating an environment where your child feels safe, seen, and supported, you’re already making a world of difference. Below are 12 powerful ways you're nurturing emotional safety for your ADHD child. Take a moment to celebrate these everyday win …
Mar 04, 2025 Jody
Can Sensory Toys Help with Anxiety? A Guide for Parents

Can Sensory Toys Help with Anxiety? A Guide for Parents

As parents, it’s heart breaking to see our children struggle with anxiety. Whether it’s social situations, school, or everyday challenges, anxiety can make the world feel overwhelming for kids. Fortunately, there are tools that can help, and one of the most effective options is sensory toys. But can sensory toys really help with anxiety? The answer is yes - and we’re here to show you how!At Sensory Oasis for Kids, we specialise in sensory tools that are designed to calm, focus, and soothe childr …
Sep 14, 2024 Jody
​Why Do Children Chew on Things They Shouldn't?

​Why Do Children Chew on Things They Shouldn't?

If you’re a parent or caregiver, you might have noticed your child chewing on non-food items like clothing, pencils, or toys. While this can be frustrating or concerning, it’s a common behaviour among children, especially those who are neurodivergent or have sensory processing needs. But why do children chew on things they shouldn't, and how can we provide safer alternatives? At Sensory Oasis, we understand these challenges and offer practical solutions like our range of chew necklaces from Jell …
Aug 27, 2024 Jody
Understanding and Supporting "School Can’t" Children - A Guide for Parents

Understanding and Supporting "School Can’t" Children - A Guide for Parents

As a parent, it can be incredibly challenging to watch your child struggle with attending school. For some children, the idea of going to school can trigger intense anxiety, fear, or distress, leading them to say, "I can't go to school." These children are often referred to as "School Can’t" kids—a term that acknowledges the very real challenges they face in trying to engage with the traditional school environment.The struggle is not simply about a child refusing to go to school; it's often a si …
Aug 13, 2024 Jody
The Connection Between Sensory Processing Disorder and Constipation

The Connection Between Sensory Processing Disorder and Constipation

If you or a loved one experiences Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), you may have noticed that it can often coincide with constipation. As someone who has personally experienced this connection, I understand how frustrating it can be to manage. However, understanding this link and addressing sensory needs can lead to relief and improved quality of life. In this article, we will explore the relationship between sensory processing and constipation and discuss strategies for managing symptoms …
Jan 15, 2024 Marty